Gender (in) equality
I am starting this article with a rider. The views expressed in this article are completely personal. They are not intended to demean either of the sexes.
Life started on this planet accidently. It evolved naturally from a single cell to humans. One should note that homo sapiens was the last specie to evolve and since then no other specie has evolved to supersede humans.
What is the purpose of life? As far as nature is concerned, purpose of life is to live and procreate, regenerate. All the things around us have naturally evolved to assist living and regeneration of living species. This applies to humans also.
Life started with single cell. Growth and regeneration took place by cellular multiplication and division. At some point during the evolution male and female forms emerged and the regeneration was carried out by mating of the males and the females. As the species evolved, brain was formed and then it started becoming bigger and bigger, culminating into formation of the human brain, which is the biggest. With the brain came the process of thinking and the decision making ability. Humans emerged from the caves and the jungles to form groups. This in turn gave rise to social structures, families, settlements, villages and so on and so forth leading to civilizations and ultimately to the life in the present form.
One must remember that every step in evolution has a specific purpose. As stated earlier, one of the fundamental purpose of life is to procreate. Nature created male and female form for this purpose. As an incentive to procreation, sex life evolved. Sex is the ultimate pleasure of life and that ensures procreation. The other reason behind the male-female creation was division of labour. And this is the crux of the matter.
Nature intended females to be the bearer of offspring. Nature also intended the males to be the protectors of the female and the offspring. They were also supposed to be the providers.
To ensure procreation, females were made to be attractive to the males. To ensure protection and provisions, males became physically stronger. This is true in most forms of life with few exceptions. The queen Bee in honeybees, for example. In some bird species, the males win over the female birds by intricate dance steps or display of their assets like feathers etc. In animals, males fight with each other to win over the female. Once nature laid down these rules, most of the living species strictly followed them.
Problems arose when the human brains started to grow. Humans started thinking. They started questioning the natural processes. Social life evolved to the extent as we know it today.
In today’s world, women are becoming physically equally stronger. They have a thought process similar to men, and they have started questioning the natural design. They have started questioning the division of labour as defined by nature.
On the other hand, men have become arrogant due to their obvious physical advantage. They have become the dominant species. Women, rightfully so, resent this.
Nature designed women to be beautiful and attractive. By natural instinct, women want to attract men. In today’s world, woman enhances her beauty with attractive clothing, makeup, jewelry etc. This obviously works and man instantly gets attracted towards a woman.
As social life evolved, rules were put in place to streamline life. Social structures were created. Concept of family and monogamy emerged. Most of the humans follow these rules. However, there were two crucial fallouts. One was, male became dominant. Second, they started putting restrictions of female. This has led to gender discrimination.
Now the issue is this. Should today’s female, abandon the role assigned to her by nature altogether and try to become equal to a male in all respects? And whether this is at all possible and desirable?
And should the male completely resist this and try to remain dominant?
This conflict and skewed mentality of some misguided males has also resulted in problems of
Sexual harassment, rapes, polygamy etc. In some cases females are also provocateurs.
There is no question but the difference between a male and a female is diminishing in many aspects of life, but crucial difference still remains. That is child bearing. This and the male chauvinistic thinking are the two major factors that are preventing the gender equality in today’s world.
It is possible that in near future Science can provide answer to the first problem. It would be possible to genetically alter human body and allow the child bearing to take place in artificial womb. But the problem of child care still remains. And how does one solve the problem of male chauvinistic attitude? It is said that man is a born polygamist. So do we blame the nature for this? Can we genetically alter this behavior?
If we genetically alter our bodies so that sex remains only as a pleasure exercise, will this bring gender equality?
My own view is that this will help, but still, a course correction is required in our thinking to really achieve the gender equality.



Comments
Nicely expressed
By : Sanjay Orpe
Article is well written but misses many important points. Nature wanted to have procreation so that species continue to flourish because in nature survival is very difficult and hence having more progeny is important. But for humans now this is the time when they do not have to look over their shoulders to see if any predator is behind them. Because of our brain and how w
By : Subash Pai
Nicely expressed.
By : Shubhangi
The article is good. It is expressed nicely on nature.
By : Margaret Dsouza
Gender (in) equality is the topic of hot discussion nowadays. I personally think that the problems are rising with metamorphosis of brain, thought process and inventions at a pace beyond our imagination. With intervention of machine technology, artificial intelligence, our life is more simplified for a common man man due to which much of the time and energies are indulged in comparison and arguments. Cosequenty, Community based society system would collapse many more years later and then probably, gender equality process will take birth. Change in practical based education system depending on individuals aptitude from the early school days can play a better role towards gender equality.
By : Nilu Umalkar
I think there should not be any interference against nature.We have seen the fate of Dolly, the clone lamb.
By : Pratibha Tarabadkar
Very well & logically written article! I appreciate the way you analised it overall, but here emotional part of the relationship, emotional bond between child & mother, child & father is also a factor to be considered.
By : SHUBHANGI ASHOK JOSHI
Gender equality is a mind setup.you don't have to be educated but must be civilized.if one understands the basics of gender life is just beautiful
By : Hema Ratnaparkhi
Man and women behavior is linked to their upbringing! You can see this difference even in India. Matriarchal society creates a different woman than One raised in patriarchal societies. The concept of paternity leave for raising a child is a beginning towards bringing gender equality!
By : Aashish
Actually, science and technology & universal education are resulting in female dominance because they are more intelligent, cool and calculated and their phisic is more durable. The dominance of muscle is being replaced by dominance of brain (knowledge). I feel now it will be the challenge for the women to ensure gender equality and be more charitable for men. Lets see how they do justice to their NEW responsibility !!!!
By : Aniruddha Patwardhan
Very nicely written article
By : Mani Subramanian
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By : Shashank
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By : Ujwala abnave
Very nicely described very sensitive subject but correctly n properly narreted
By : Sandhya kamat
Very sensitive subject but very correctly n properly narreted
By : Sandhya kamat
Very nice article....thought provoking....and mind grasping... Keep on writing such good article. Good wishes..
By : Sameer Peshave
Very nice article.Keep on writing.I totally agree with Nilu.Even I think the problems are rising with metamorphosis of brain,thought process & inventions at a pace beyond our imagination. Change in practical based education system depending on individuals aptitude from the early school days can definitely play a better role towards gender equality.
By : Shubhada Deshpande.